The Virtual Hammock

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I subscribe to some daily inspiration from Peggy McColl of www.destinies.com and would like to share with you, this week’s Friday story by Jaroldeen Asplund Edwards – it is certainly a perfectly timed reminder for me – I hope you enjoy it too

The Daffodil Principle

Several times my daughter had telephoned to say, “Mother, you must come and see the daffodils before they are over.” I wanted to go, but it was a two-hour drive from Laguna to Lake Arrowhead. Going and coming took most of a day – and I honestly did not have a free day until the following week.

“I will come next Tuesday,” I promised, a little reluctantly, on her third call. Next Tuesday dawned cold and rainy. Still, I had promised, and so I drove the length of Route 91, continued on I-215, and finally turned onto Route 18 and began to drive up the mountain highway. The tops of the mountains were sheathed in clouds, and I had gone only a few miles when the road was completely covered with a wet, gray blanket of fog. I slowed to a crawl, my heart pounding. The road becomes narrow and winding toward the top of the mountain.

As I executed the hazardous turns at a snail’s pace, I was praying to reach the turnoff at Blue Jay that would signify I had arrived. When I finally walked into Carolyn’s house and hugged and greeted my grandchildren I said, “Forget the daffodils, Carolyn! The road is invisible in the clouds and fog, and there is nothing in the world except you and these darling children that I want to see bad enough to drive another inch!”

My daughter smiled calmly, “We drive in this all the time, Mother.”

“Well, you won’t get me back on the road until it clears – and then I’m heading for home!” I assured her.

“I was hoping you’d take me over to the garage to pick up my car. The mechanic just called, and they’ve finished repairing the engine,” she answered.

“How far will we have to drive?” I asked cautiously.

“Just a few blocks,”Carolyn said cheerfully.

So we buckled up the children and went out to my car. “I’ll drive,” Carolyn offered. “I’m used to this.” We got into the car, and she began driving.

In a few minutes I was aware that we were back on the Rim-of-the-World Road heading over the top of the mountain… Read the rest of this entry »

I was going through my emails this morning – instead of ignoring them which has been my want for the past few months due to feelings of overwhelm – I deleted MASSES yesterday and now it is a pleasure to be able to look in my inbox instead of dreading it… anyway, one of them was from internet guru Joel Comm who is on holiday in Hawaii but obviously logs in despite it! He was talking about two guys I’ve heard of before – Tellman Knudson and Shawn Casey – so I thought ok, I’ll click the link… and I think you should too! Here’s an excerpt from Joel’s email:

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Today I woke up and decided to ‘get my shit in one sock’ – a delightful expression given to me by my soon-to-be-ex-husband which felt perfect for my mood.

So I was up and washed and dressed by 7.45am – take note Nicola (the woman who was still in her nightie at 2pm yesterday) – and ready for the garage to come pick up my Sedona that I’d scraped at Christmas time squeezing into my sister’s driveway… Yes, it had been something I’d been ignoring for months but last week, with a surge of energy from eating more raw food, I’d gotten it mot’d and serviced and the chewed up seatbelt (courtesy of my mutt Jasper) was replaced in readiness for being sold. The scrape is the final thing to sort, then bye bye fun bus …. she will soon be appearing on eBay *sniff*

Why am I selling? Cos I need the money basically – a wonderfully easy car to drive with enough room to swing a small child or 6 in, it is just too extravagant for my needs and I’ve got to pay the bills somehow until I get my affiliate marketing business off the ground (that’s another blog post alllllll together). I’ll post a photo and details on here too when I get it back in case you know someone who’d love to buy it.

So, with my new sense of getting on with things, I sat down and trawled through my email and actually DELETED stuff that I know I’ll never read which was actually a HUGE relief. I will start unsubscribing from things now as they come in, my criteria being – if I don’t want to read it straight away then it’s not good enough to get my attention, so LET IT GO.

Reading through I saw Nicola’s post about her new Google group to help people focus. WOO HOO I thought and signed up straight away! Then I thought ‘bugger’ I now have to think about what I want to do today and write it down and be ummmmm accountable… Here is what I sent in:

ok, i’m joining in!

1. Create spreadsheets for my personal finances

2. Move money around based on that info

3. Find the back up discs from my old computer and install files on my laptop ready for more sorting of finances

4. Write a blog entry on http://www.thevirtualhammock.com/blog (for Judith’s info *grin*) and not worry about how it looks or sorting it out first

5. Contact at least one mortgage company or broker about trying to get a mortgage for a flat over a restaurant…. will post on other group about this too

The idea is that you then have to report in every hour or so and update the group on what you’ve actually DONE to achieve your daily goals… WellI’ve actually been pretty good at doing that and this is the last one I sent in…

Ummmm well that didn’t go too well

Done

> phoned Virgin and downgraded tv package to save money

> received phone call from broker – he’s found one lender that will lend subject to valuers comments… 6.39% 2 yrs fixed £1200 fees plus the £8400 to move from my current lender
> did some quick research on cheaper cars as I’m about to sell my Kia Sedona to get a cheap run-a-round
> emailed ex requesting help with school fees…
> emailed buyers of my property to find out what’s happening and to see if they want to adopt my dog
> phoned solicitor and made appointment

> booked dog into kennels forFriday, ready for going to London for Alan Forrest Smith’s marketing workshop on Saturday!!!

Still to do

> paperwork to sort and file *sigh*
> take another look at Nicola’s spreadsheet, find discs, write blog

What have I learned?

> I get distracted easily
> I underestimate how long things take – especially with kids at home
> I need to close down Skype and MSN to help me focus I should do the
> stuff I REALLY don’t want to do first

But I HAVE done a load of stuff – and because I told the group I can see I’ve done stuff and don’t feel like a failure!!! YAY! I’ve also started tackling stuff I’ve been ignoring for ages, which has gotta be a good thing. And I have a new slogan..

I’m not perfect but… I’m having a go!